A Sad Day: Today Would Have Been Jake’s 5th Birthday


It’s been more than six months, yet I still can’t believe it. My nephew Jake was killed last year and today would have been his 5th birthday.

Jake’s biological father has been indicted and his wife is also in jail. My sister is heartbroken, and today of all days must be very hard on her. This is the first birthday since Jake’s death.

Jake’s death was a horrible tragedy caused by child abuse. It never should have happened and it never should happen to any child. Jake was the sweetest, quietest child I have ever known. They say time heals all wounds, but I’m not sure this is something you can ever recover from.

Sending my love and prayers to my sister today and every day. Keeping my thoughts with all families that have lost a child to abuse.

**If you know of someone that needs help, please call The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) is dedicated to the prevention of child abuse. Serving the United States, its territories, and Canada, the Hotline is staffed 24 hours a day, 7 days a week with professional crisis counselors who, through interpreters, can provide assistance in 170 languages. The Hotline offers crisis intervention, information, literature, and referrals to thousands of emergency, social service, and support resources. All calls are anonymous and confidential.


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  1. What a horrible thing for a family to deal with. One of my best friends lost a granddaughter to child abuse. (The biological Mothers boyfriend) Praying for whatever peace your sister can find in her life after such a tragedy.

  2. I am so sorry for your family’s devastating loss…. My condolences and prayers for your sister and family. Hopefully, knowing that Jake’s suffering has ended and that he is now rejoicing in the heavens above bring your family some comfort…

  3. I’m so sorry for your family’s loss, I can only imagine how hard this must be to deal with. My thoughts and hugs for your family.